At Alliance, I made friends who would become instrumental in influencing my destiny. One of these was Stanley Waringo. When we were in Form Two, Stanley was one of the two students selected to participate in the annual exchange program with Brooks School in Massachusetts, USA. On his return, he brought with him a catalogue of American colleges. Using the information in the catalogue, I began to send applications to various American colleges using my pocket money. It’s this effort that 2 CHARLES ONYARI NYAKWEBA EMERGENCY HOSPITAL would eventually lead to my gaining admission to Luther College in Decorah, Iowa.
The admission letter came several months after my father’s death. But before I could take my place in class, I needed to pay $5000.
After sharing the news with my mother, the next person I spoke to was Victor Nyangaya. Besides the great work he’d done during my father’s funeral, he had remained deeply concerned about the well-being of our family.
Once he’d read the admission letter, he looked me in the eye and said that we had no other option but to make it happen. Next I visited Ben Mesa at his home one Saturday morning. He too was in agreement that everything needed to be done to help me pursue my academic dream.
The committee that had so ably overseen my father’s funeral reconvened to help me raise the required funds. It’s through their efforts and those of others that on August 30, 1994 I left for the USA. It’s with deep gratitude and honor that I recognize and appreciate the efforts of the following in helping me become what I am today. Sadly, like my father, two of them have since passed on: James Mokogi, Ocharo Rogena, Victor Nyang’aya, Alex Ntabo, Mirambo Ombuna, Zedekiah Agata, Charles Sagwe, Nehemiah Nyakwara, Stephen Nyakeriga, Samwel Nyanchama, Kennedy Nyakweba, Ben Mesa, John Bikundo, Suleiman Magare, John Atunga and Johnson Atoko. Along with these, I am deeply grateful to the late Hon Atebe Marita and Engineer Bikundo for organizing a second fundraiser on my behalf.
Allow me to make special mention of the following: my late maternal grandmother, Rachel Mandere, the late James Mokogi, Ocharo Rogena and Suleiman Magare.
My grandmother not only gave all she had towards the effort, but also went door to door in her village to solicit financial donations on my behalf.
Suleiman Magare did not know me very well. In spite of this he went ahead to loan me money and also take the risk of offering his name as the financial guarantor of my education in the US.
Mzee Ocharo was the best man during my parent’s wedding. On one occasion when I visited him, he reminded me that inasmuch as I was doing well in the US, my people back at home needed me more. That’s one of the reasons why I’m here today.